If you’re parked in a campsite, layby, or public parking, you might notice that other vans or cars often seem to choose the spot right next to yours, even when there’s plenty of space elsewhere. It can feel invasive, frustrating, or like bad luck.
Possible Reasons
- Safety and Security
Other travellers might feel safer being near someone else’s vehicle, especially in quieter or more remote spots. It’s an instinct: proximity can make people feel less vulnerable. - Perceived Occupancy Patterns
Humans often look for cues when parking. If your van is the first or one of the few in a lot, others may assume that’s the “preferred” area, so they follow your lead. - Social Norms in Van Life
In campsites or informal van parking areas, there’s often a subtle social logic: people like to be near others, creating community and convenience for chats, shared facilities, or mutual awareness. - Limited Awareness or Spatial Judgment
Some people simply don’t notice the space elsewhere, or they misjudge spacing when manoeuvring larger vehicles. - Unintentional “Attraction”
A tidy, well-set-up van with visible features like solar panels, awnings, or outdoor seating can unconsciously attract other campers who admire it or assume it’s an ideal parking spot.
How to Handle It
- Stay Calm: It’s usually unintentional. The other camper may simply want company or safety.
- Adjust Your Position: If the parking lot allows, leave slightly more buffer space next time.
- Engage Socially (Optional): A friendly nod or quick chat can turn a potentially frustrating situation into a pleasant interaction.
- Choose Strategic Spots: If you prefer solitude, park at the far end, near obstacles, or slightly offset to signal your need for space.
- Embrace Flexibility: Van life is about adaptability. Sometimes sharing space creates unexpected social opportunities.
Reflective Prompt
How do you balance your desire for personal space with the social realities of van life? Could this situation be an opportunity to practice patience or friendliness?